The Coaching Mistakes I’ve Made So You Don’t Have To
Because experience is a great teacher… but learning from someone else’s mistakes is cheaper. We all make mistakes as coaches- even the top level coaches get it wrong and we see that all the time. No coaching course prepares you for everything, and if I’m really frank, most don’t prepare you for much. So you’ve learnt the skill zone, game zone context. You’ve learnt how to safely coach a tackle and the front row of the scrum. You’ve learnt that you need a whistle. What you didn’t learn was how to balance everyone’s needs. How to manage clashes of personalities and egos. Or how to upwardly manage your committee or direct line manager. And trust me, when you realise you’ve been thrown in the shark tank to deal with all of the above- it is eye opening. So yes, many a mistake has been made in my coaching journey- some of it is because of being neurodivergent and simply not seeing things the way everyone else does, but some of it, was just me getting it wrong. Mistake...